Thursday, July 16, 2026

From Prayer Warrior to Prayer Servant

Prayer Servants

This week, I was responding to someone's prayer request and started to type, "The prayer warriors are on it."

Just before I hit send, I felt a gentle check in my spirit.

I paused, erased the words, and almost rewrote the entire sentence. Then another phrase quietly rose within me:

Prayer servants.

That stopped me in my tracks.

What is a prayer servant?

What does that way of seeing ourselves imply?

The more I sat with it, the more it seemed to reflect the heart of Jesus. I doubt He would have described Himself as a warrior, especially in the way we often use that word today. The people of His day were looking for a warrior king, someone who would overthrow Roman oppression. Yet Jesus consistently revealed a different kingdom.

"The greatest among you shall be your servant."

That changes the atmosphere of prayer.

A prayer servant is not someone who rushes into battle armed with opinions, formulas, or predetermined solutions. A prayer servant first becomes still. Like Jesus, we seek only to do what we see the Father doing. We learn to abide. We listen before we speak. We receive before we release.

That kind of prayer requires trust. It requires surrender.

Instead of prescribing answers for someone else's life, we become available to God's heart for that person. Our role is not to control outcomes but to faithfully echo what He is already saying.

As I've continued to reflect on this, prayer itself has begun to change in my mind.

It feels far less performative. It is no longer an impressive speech or a beautifully crafted oration. Jesus warned against praying simply to be heard by others. Instead, He invited us into the secret place, the inner prayer closet, where there is no audience except the Father.

That is where a prayer servant is formed.

Perhaps this is also why Jesus' prayers for people were often so brief. He wasn't trying to convince God. He wasn't trying to impress the crowd. He simply spoke in agreement with what He had already received from the Father.

His words carried authority because they flowed from communion.

I wonder how our prayers would change if we spent just a little more time listening before speaking.

Maybe the deepest work of prayer isn't learning what to say.

Maybe it's learning how to hear.

This is one of the reasons we gather each weekday morning for Christian meditation. We aren't trying to master a technique or manufacture an experience. We are simply creating space to become quiet enough to notice God's presence, to listen for His voice, and to learn the posture of a prayer servant.

If that resonates with you, I'd love to invite you to join us Monday through Friday at 7:30 a.m CST. We spend time becoming still before God, allowing silence, Scripture, and attentive listening to shape the way we pray and the way we live.

The Zoom details are https://us02web.zoom.us/j/85171005489?pwd=cgFjezp8wzxXdNQ11muSOq64npzg3M.1.

Perhaps becoming a prayer servant begins with something wonderfully simple:

Be still.
Listen.
Then pray.

Thursday, September 29, 2016

Obama's America

Morning Meds 5.16

Dr. Felicity Joy
WARNING ***This is not a political message.*** In fact, you would probably be disappointed if you knew who I voted for the last couple of elections...so we’re just not going there. But you’d have to be blind not to see the changes in America the last 8 years. And no matter if you’re shaking your head or shouting HOORAH, there’s an inspiring way to look at these changes that have to do with my life’s mission.
I discovered about myself, throughout the variety that is the only constant in my career landscape, a life coach/community organizer/drama teacher/singer/actor/dancer (oh my!) that one thing that binds them all together is my commitment to the underdog. If you are truly disenfranchised or just see yourself that way, I’m the one who is committed to bringing the JOY back into your life (pun fully intended).
My message is always one of empowerment; just like Obama said, “Yes YOU can!” And under his presidency the disenfranchised have found a voice. Taboo things and things thought to be wrong are now commonly accepted. And the reason I’ve come to recognize the beauty in this is because it lies at the heart of what made me a coach. I’ve been laughed at, belittled, abused and oppressed and quite frankly, it’s made me the warrior-princess that I am.
We have a choice of what hardships will do to us. I cringe when people say, “Awww what a shame that had to happen.” Every experience is an opportunity to transform! I want to be that catalyst and I’m calling heart-centered people to utilize their compassion, their strengths and communication skills to create opportunities instead of “feel sorry for” people. What difference can one person make? What difference can one small business owner make?
Let’s find out! Adopt the mantra “Yes I can” and turn your world upside down! How you say? Well, as a coach I'm fundamentally committed to staying out of people's hows. Because how doesn't matter as much as you committing to the bottom line of what you want to see changed.
Don't be afraid to dream of a better society.  Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King is not the only one who can have a dream!  Then commit to the dream, not to the worry that says how-will-that-ever-happen. But you must make a plan of what you will do next.  It's like putting the destination in the GPS. Then just let the little lady called “life” direct you to the open doors that will lead you to your goal!
The world needs more people that will commit to being the fulfilment of Dr. King’s dream just as Barack Obama represents; as well as people that will expand that dream with their own vision of a better America and a better life. 

Rising To The Occasion

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Today will be another Coach’s Coaches reflection as I’ve had two incredible sessions with two different coaches this week. First was with the coach I’ve hired Marianne Renner who is a phenomenal new coach whose business is just exploding and rightfully so. With her I’m working on maintaining work-life balance with my exploding business and she is getting to figure it out two steps ahead of me which is perfect because she’s crazy sympathetic.
 
She gave me a phenomenal book recommendation, The Power of Full Engagement. It’s about managing energy and not time. That’s precisely what I’m figuring out without really knowing too much about it. I love learning more so I can be intentional in what I’m doing. And as I learn more I will be sharing it with you.
 
My second awesome friend is someone I just met on the day I REALLY needed to meet her. I was freaking out about the largest speech I’ve ever had to give coming up and I just couldn’t ground myself. She helped me to see that I’m in a place of needing to rise to this occasion and go to the next level but I have to pass through my present insecurity to get there. She masterfully guided me through the yuck to get to the clearing. My task at this big speaking engagement is not to emulate my greatest hero, but to bring hope to the hopeless which I’ve done a thousand times on an individual and group level, so I can totally do it with a huge group just as well. Many thanks Laurie Polinski!
 
David from the Bible said, “I’ve killed the lion, and I’ve killed the bear, and I will now take off the head of this uncircumcised Philistine!” And I also will not let communities be riddled by fear just as I won’t let my clients be consumed either.
 
Thank you awesome coaches and awesome you for letting me share my journey with you! And if you can join me in Lockport I would so enjoy your prayers and support.

Tony Robbins Reflections

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What Makes Life #Matter

Morning Meds 5.12
I've been pretty outspoken since the events in Dallas, if you've missed it I invite you to check out my most popular and my favorite videos from the week. If you have a way of sharing them, I'm happy to say that my perspective has been helping people.


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Happy Belated Independence Day

Morning Meds 5.11
I was awakened at 3am this morning, I thought to pray, but instead I was led in patriotic songs. "God Bless America," into "Proud to be an American," into "The Star Spangled Banner," and again and again and again. Then I learned all the words to Lee Greenwood's famous song (which I've yet to make it through without crying), and I repented for years of not being proud to be an American. 
I was then given the outline to a speech that I plan on giving throughout schools to help students take their place in Civil Rights history and create an atmosphere of self-determination against all odds.

Because America is an idea, and the idea is this: you can exchange who you were for who you were created to be. And many have come to this country and done just that, and just as many have been born here and have missed the opportunity. 
So it's time to be an American. And if you want to make America great again then you must be great. Period.
 
Dr. Felicity Joy

Free to Be Me

Morning Meds 5.10
I was featured in a blog this week called 30 Days of Gorgeous!
What an honor! Please check it out and consider subscribing to the blog from Toma Photography. She's improving the self esteem of women everywhere! (And I can get you my special discount...just ask!)

Felicity Joy